As much as I love The Knot, and love browsing through the website, I am realizing that the more I plan my wedding, the more I'm bombarded with advice of what rules to break and new hip looks to steal. I have to ask, whats wrong with following the rules?! My fiance and I are planning a classic, simple, elegant wedding with as many traditional aspects as possible. Yes, that means we are saying traditional vows, we have a simple elegant color scheme, I am wearing a cathederal veil, the bridesmaids will be in the same dress, in the same color, and all of the men will be wearing dress shoes! So this morning, when I get my daily email from The Knot, and the feature artilcle and slidesow, AGAIN is what rules to break, I asked my fiance's opinion on the matter. His answer, 'people just don't care about weddings anymore!' I get that we live in a time where people and society have changed, and with that, they don't regard marraige and weddings with the same awe and respect as they used to, but why not? Trust me, I get that every bride wants to have the unique wedding, and if you choose to have your flower girl blowing bubble gum balloons down the aisle, to each her own, but in all of my wedding planning, I am finding that actually doing a traditonal ceremony with traditional aspects is so much more unique now-a-days! But I know I must not be the only bride out there who is sticking to tradition, so why can't our next email from The Knot feature special traditions to KEEP or have slideshows of classic looks?!