So I am thinking I don't want any speeches. My sister's (who is also my MOH) attempt at a speech at my shower was a disaster- she didn't say anything niec about me and then talked about herself. My friends were mortified and ended up making another speech after her.
My FBIL (best man) has a drinking problem and while he says he will keep it together for the wedding, I know he won't. I really don't want him getting up bombed and incoherent (because that's what happens to him) to make a speech. What are everyone's thoughts on this?