Hello! I am an Irish girl who is marryng into a filipino family. They are all first generation here so still very steadfast in tradition and culture. Does anyone have any advice for me or suggestions? I need some ideas on what the ceremony program looks like. We are doing the Arras, chord and veil. There are no sponsors (very long story but not doing them.) We are having all 10 of our aunts/uncles participate in the ceremony as well as my grandparents and his two sisters. I just don't kow how they do programs and I understand there are some requirements about honoring people or something. Please help. I am trying to please everyone and not sure how this is going to work.