My family is of the hardcore baptist faith from dead center in the bible belt. His family is a baptist family from outside of the bible belt. My family is angry because we want to have champagne and wine at our wedding. His family doesn't care no matter what. We are in a pickle because we want the wine and champagne and my family said they will not be in attendance. My fiancé and I are not baptist. We do not want a baptist ceremony. I'm not really religious and he is but he's not baptist. He's more along the lines of catholic. What should we do? If we want to pay for ourselves we could not afford the wedding of our dreams but if my parents helped we still couldn't have the wedding we want. Any suggestions?