So I don't know how far this tradition reaches (ND, SD, & MN for sure), but in my region it is tradition that the B & G take time to dance with everyone who is willing to pay $1 - "The Dollar Dance". The problem is that this tradition usually takes place right when everyone is dancing and the party is really getting going. Then, the DJ has to play 5-6 slow songs (or more) so that the B & G get a chance to chit-chat with everyone and so that everyone has another chance to help the B & G pay for their HM by pitching in their "dollar".
Our problem isn't that we're worried that we won't get time to mingle with everyone to acknowledge the time they took to be with us on our day - we decided we'll go around to all of the tables during dinner to toast with them. Our problem is that the couples we know who have done the dollar dance say they've made a LOT of money doing it (typically $2000-$2500). This is because oftentimes the uncles and aunts are willing to pay $20 to help out the B & G.
It might sound greedy, but our families expect some way to "help out" the B & G, and to be honest, we would appreciate whatever help we can get. Does anyone know of any other traditions we can use to replace this awful, boring, party-killing tradition?
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