The catering. Our venue has a michelin star restaurant, and they are also our caterers for the wedding! I wish our guests were more adventurous, because there are a few menu items I'd love to have but I doubt some guests would even consider eating (veal, anyone?).Our own personal splurge would be our wedding planner -- don't even ask me about her fee, lol. OR, the fact that we ended up deciding to stay at the venue (which is a resort) for the weekend. OR, my shoes. HA!