When I first became engaged in April 2008, I was still in touch with one of my best friends from high school. As a result, I mentioned that I would like her to be a bridesmaid, and she was surprised but excited. Since that time, we have not spoken a word (aside from some VERY infrequent facebook comments,) and it has been over a year! We are not in touch at all anymore. It's not that we dislike each other, it's just that life has taken us in different directions and we are not close at all anymore. So what do I do? She doesn't know anything about my wedding, or life for that matter, and has not made any indication that she is interested in either. I would like to invite her as a guest rather than have her as a bridesmaid, but I know it is poor manners to do such a thing once you have made someone part of the wedding party. I am just confused about what to do right now. Having her stand up with me as a bridesmaid would practically be like standing next to a stranger on my wedding day. Help! What would you do in this situation?