One of my bridesmaids is now bringing her ex boyfriend to the wedding who up and moved out on her when she was at work one day. She has been struggling for money ever since he moved out and I had told her she could stay at our house and then stay at MOH house the night of the wedding. Now she is bringing the ex bf and MOH doesnt have room for them at her house (BM would have slept on the couch) so now on our wedding night we are going to have 2 house guests in our small house. Is it being a bridezilla to tell her they have to get a motel room the night of the wedding? Plus to top it off this guy doesnt want to come to the actual wedding only the reception and he plans to hang out at our house till the wedding is over (all day during pictures and the wedding isnt till 7pm), and this guy has a history of sealing stuff. FI doesnt want this guy in our house while we are gone. What would you do