I'm actually a bridesmaid in a wedding, my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant, I made the B aware of this before I was even officially asked to be in the wedding (it's my brother's wedding). She went out with her sister to pick the dress, giving the other bridesmaids no opinion, and chose a dress that would not work with a person would could possibly be 6 months pregnant. I've since told her that if I find out that I'm pregnant which will be in 2 weeks, I will not be able to wear the dress, she is dead set on everyone wearing the same dress, now she has kicked me out of the wedding. Any opinions? She's asked me to read or hand out programs, but i'm not sure I even want to be involved. I was open and honest about the possiblity of pregnancy to avoid this situation and it still happened. Not sure what to do, and I'll be truely hurt if I end up not being pregnant and I'm not in my only brothers wedding, I just don't see why she can't wait 2 weeks for me to find out. Any thoughts or opinions would be helpful! Thanks!