I have a large wedding pary (6 on each side) including my sisters, my brother, fi's sister, and a few close friends. Including family is important. I am very close with my cousins, they are practically siblings. I want to include the male cousins as ushers, but I have one female cousin that is 13 years old, and I can't figure out the best way to include her. I don't want to do the junior bridesmaid thing, because the wp is big enough as is and i don't want her to be more included than her brother. It has been suggested that she man the guest book, but I think a 13 year old would not enjoy it... so any ideas?aside: we are including fi's cousin as a flower girl, and his male cousin as an usher as well