OK so I need advice to help my fiance. He has 2 brothers, one he is closer with and that is his BM, the other is a GM. He has already told us that do to his job (he's a chef) and the time of year is peak season, he doesn't know if he can take a Fri off for the rehersal and the Sat for the wedding and this totally gets on my nerves already since he should be honored to be in the wedding and do these 2 small things we ask him for.
Now the entire groomsman party has gotten their fittings and he still hasn't! The wedding is 4 months away and although we're told we still have time we have made this extremely easy for him. He doesn't live thatfar but it is on an island and so we've offered to meet him at the ferry and take him to the shop or have told him he can get measured on the island and call in his measurements to Men's Warehouse. MW called my fiance the other day to ask about the last GM and so he texted his brother asking when he would be getting this done and his brother was so rude...saying that it was getting annoying that he was again hearing about the fitting and that he'd better stop talking about it before he got any more annoyed.
This to me is not how someone should act when they are invited to be part of your wedding. Any suggestions on how to deal with it?? My Fiance already said he doesn't want to ask the BM to step in and deal with it although that's what I thought should happen.
(sorry for the legthy post)