My sister, MOH, and mom are throwing me a bridal shower, and my FMIL has said nothing about throwing one (which i wasn't expecting), but she sent my mom and sister a list of about 50 ladies she wants invited (i.e. herself, FI grandmothers, FMIL best friends). I know everyone she wants to invite, but 50 from her list plus whoever my family and MOH were inviting adds up quick...how can my mo tell my FMIL that she's cutting the list back? (keep in mind my FMIL will hold it against my family forever)
I personally think if she has 50 people she wants to invite to a bridal shower that my MOH is throwing she should just throw one herself or not expect anyone but her (FMIL) and my FI's grandmothers to be invited.
am i being rude?