We are having an almost-destination wedding. We live a couple hours from most family/friends and the wedding is nearish to our house. It's a 2-3 hour drive for our guests. The bridal party will need to come up the day before for the rehearsal. The morning before the wedding the girls will help me and the florist with putting together the centerpieces (saves some $$), then the rehearsal is around noon, and we'll have the rehearsal lunch/dinner after that. I'd like to hang out with my girls that night. A couple questions on this:
1. During the day (flower making thing and rehearsal) where do their dates go? I'm guessing they'll come to the rehearsal since they come to the lunch/dinner that follows but what about the flower thing?
2. I want to hang out with just my girls that night. That might be selfish considering the distance and circumstances. I was going to ask them to stay at my place or maybe get a hotel suite. Do I need to include their guests in that? Is there any expectation that I pay for their hotels the night before?
Thanks!