Here is a little background...i have 4 BMs and 1 MOH. It was really tough for my to choose my MOH, I decided to go with my college roomate, over my childhood best friend. My college roomate has always been there for me through good and bad, you name it, I can count on her, etc. My childhood best friend is lets say...a bit immature.
She threw a temper tantrum when she realized she was a BM and not the MOH....i tried to be nice about it and didn't want to say well, we are not as close as we used to be, you're a bit flakey, immature and I can't really count on you for anything...I just said I have BMs of honor, i like everyone the same etc etc, which in many cases is true.
My wedding is in 5 days. Every single thing has been an issue with her, from day one and I've just been trying to let it go and not let her stress me out or bring me down.
I havent been able to get her on the phone in a month...she isnt returning the bridal shops phone calls, she has not been in for a dress fitting. she lives an hour and a half from the dress shop yet is in the area all the time and can never find the time to stop in. My mom even called her this weekend, left her a message and she has not returned her phone call either.
The dress shop said the latest they will be able to alter her dress is if she goes in thursday morning as they are really busy(its wedding/prom season obviously)....
I'm not really sure what to do at this point.....I'm kind of at a loss. Everything else is in place except for her. All of my other BMs have just been awesome, on top of things and are excited for everything...they have tried to contact her as well with no luck....just at a loss, not sure when I need to start panicking or if I should just not care if her dress isn't hemmed, or if its too small or too big, or just say you're out(i know that would end the friendship and at this point im not sure if I even care anymore)?