I only have a MOH & Best Man for processional & standing beside us at the ceremony, but we decided that we wanted to have a "wedding party" of our closest friends and family. Basically, they'll be asked to wear something in our color scheme that will recognize this group of people as special attendants and look semi-unified in any group photos we take. That said, I have about 12 of these people on my side, & he has about 7-8. I don't intend on having all of these girls with me getting ready on the wedding day, although I'd love to have my friends perhaps and not his sisters have the option to minus his sisters & my 2 teenage cousins (5 ladies total). Can I do this without hurting feelings?