I and a friend of mine have both recently gotten engaged (she first). We are also planning our weddings within a 2 month period of each other. She did NOT ask me to be one of her bridesmaids. I'm a little upset, but not angry or anything like that. I still want to ask her to be one of my bridesmaids, but unsure if this is a good idea. Will it put her in an awkward position feeling she has to ask me? Or is it inappropriate because we both have our own weddings to plan also? Any advice is helpful!!