Hi,
My dear friend since childhood who was supposed to be my Matron of Honor can no longer come to the wedding due to personal and financial hardships. It's heartbreaking but I understand.
I have a large wedding party and another one of my BM has gone above and beyond in helping me and planning my shower and B party. Is it bad to ask her to be a Matron of Honor at this point or should I not have one?
I don't want to make it look like I am replacing my other friend, but I feel I also need to choose someone to stand closest to me and help me with bouquet and dress etc. This other friend has been so amazing and helped with basically everything.
What would you do? Leave things as they are, or ask the other friend to be a Matron of Honor now? I don't want her to fill like she's a back up plan though either.
Any advice would be great as I need to figure this out quick. I am getting married in 7 weeks.
Thanks so much!!!