I am the Mother of the Bride. THe Bridesmaids and Maid of Honor are wearing short dresses. The Bride is wearing a long gown that will turn into a short dress at the reception. My daughter doesn't care if I wear long or short but I want to be the same as the bridal party ...what is the proper ettiquette for this... Also what goes best with a pretty blue dresses....I am hoping the grooms mom and her stepmom will follow suit and wear short dresses just to be in sync....thanx,