to ask bridesmaids to help decorate/coordinate the day of?
I haven't asked any of my bridal party yet for the sheer fact that I'm so far from my date and I've seen all these horror stories on here. But I'm wondering about the day of. I have a friend who I want to be my matron of honor but she would make a fantastic day of coordinator. I think MOH is a much better role than coordinator and I don't want to cut her as MOH just because she's amazing. I mean how much sense does that make?
I don't really have any other friends that I would trust to see my vision. My pick for MOH has already given me great advice and has been such a help already that I wonder if she wouldn't mind taking on both roles....
I don't expect my BM's to be my servants or anything and I don't want to ask them to do something if it means I'm being rude.