I have a bridesmaid who just had a baby prematurely, lives out of state, and is unable to attend my wedding in a few weeks. She had already bought the BM dress, and I want to give her a nice gift. However, the gifts I'm giving my other BM's is related to the wedding (flip flops, clutch purse that matches dresses, etc). Do I get my new-mommy bridesmaid the same thing? Or should I just get her a nice gift, unrelated to the wedding? I really want to show her that I'll miss her on my big day!