So I have a HUGE bridal party. 10 bridesmaids (what was I thinking!?!?) I have this best friend of 10 years who I cherished so deeply.....until I got engaged. Her initial response was "What the $%*#? Ew!" I figured she was just a little taken back and was not the marrying type so I let that slide. I did not think she truly felt that way so of course, being my best friend for 10 years, I included her in the wedding. Since then, she has become such an awful friend to me. Another bridesmaid told me last night that she said "I went with Kylie to get her shorts for her engagement pictures so CHECK my wedding duties are over." and laughed about it. Look...I have not asked a SINGLE thing from any one of my bridesmaids. 3 out of the 10 have offered to help....and I have made SURE to not put any out or make them feel like I am asking too much from them. (I literally have not made them do/pay for anything). It has been brought to my attention that said "best friend" really does not care about my wedding, or the fact that I am marrying a truly INCREDIBLE man. People tell me she is just jealous, but how far do I let this go?? I am at a loss for what to do because I do not want her to be a part of my day, so that she can party at my expense. (She has a partying problem). I also do not want her to be a part of my day if she does not even stand by my decision or honor the love in my life. I never knew how truly awful it felt to have a bridesmaid act this way! What the heck do I do now!????!