So we are planning to have 2 flower girls, ages 8 and 7. A ltitle older than traditional but my cousins daughter who I am extreamly close to will be 8. Then we are going to have my fiance's neice who will be 7 walk with her. We figure while little girls are extra cute the 8 year old is who I am close to and being older the girls might be better behaved and cooperative.
For our ring bearer, there is really only one nephew of my fiance that he is close to. I don't have any younger boys that would fit this role. However the newphew will be 11. My mom says it will look dumb to have him as ring bearer and we should add another girl and make them jr groomsmen and bridesmaid. But we don't want to keep adding to wedding party either. We both initially wanted small (smaller then we will prob already end up with).
Any suggestions on how we can use the 11 year old without it looking silly?
Got Engaged Dec 25, 2010 Getting Married June 23, 2012