Ok, a little backstory when my fiance proposed, we picked a date in September 2013, everyone was excited and seemed happy, but due to stress and other factors we moved it up to September 2012. Now it seems as though all of his family, groomsmen and some of my bridesmaids are not as excited as they were.
One of my bridesmaids who has been with her fiance the same amount of time as my future husband and I originally did not have a date picked out, they were waiting until she got her degree a little over 2 years away. When I got engaged she picked a date August 2013. Then when I told her our date changed she said "September 2013 is too far away, we're changing our date to September 2012!" Um, ok? I chalked it up to coincidence. After things started settling down I checked everyones schedule and planned a meeting with my bridesmaids about the dresses/bridal shower/bachelorette party and she missed it. So I called her and tried to fill her in on everything and she started being very snobby, telling me all the ideas everyone had were terrible and that's not what SHE wanted! I loved everything I finally picks a dress in the price range and everyone loved it..she didn't say a word. She has not offered to help, and just seems very distant.. I have no idea what to do! I'm not asking for every minute of her time.. just a quick conversation every now and then. I don't know what to do!