So I have a friend, that is still a friend, but we will go months without talking, and to be honest, I can't depend on her to carry out the rolls of being a bridesmaid. But - one night after a couple glasses of wine, I asked her. The wedding isn't for another 9 months, and I want to take back my invitation, and ask someone else. What other jobs can I give her that won't require a lot of work, so that I don't totally hurt her feelings?