Ok, I have a big problem, I only really want to have 6 BMs including my MOH however, I am stuck having 9. I have 4 very close friends that I could not imagine not having in my wedding, and 4 cousins that would be very very hurt if they were not in my wedding party, plus my fiancés sister! I am also getting pressured to put my fiancés older brothers girlfriends (who I was very good friends with in the past, but we are not that close anymore) in the wedding as well. I do not know what to do!!!! I am at a loss, any suggestions would be appreciated! I do not want my wedding to be a circus!