this came up actually on the attire board when asking about tuxedos but i thought I should ask here
I'm all set for my bridesmaids dress and my attire - all ordered and mostly in
My fiance still has not picked all of his groomsmen. His brother is BM but hasnt picked the two others.
we're four months out and i wanted to get the tuxes and all picked out, but someone brought up that maybe we didnt need to have the same number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. I've been to weddings before where there were more male attendants than female, but never the other way around.
I dont want to nag him about it but he really needs to pick, since we're getting close and people need to budget (and esp since ours is a wedding in my hometown and anyone he chooses would have to travel) I think I might suggest to him that he chose and ask his groomsmen while im away this weekend and have it sorted out when I get back. Then if he doenst have anything we just go with his brother as BM, and my three (MOH and two BMs). This leaves us without anyone to serve as ushers but is that a problem? any other thoughts on having just one best man and three bridesmaids? I honestly think if i told him to pick this weeked or go with none then he'd choose people pretty quick, but if he honestly can't think of anyone he is that close with that he'd want them up there then I dont want to force him