I am unsure of what to do and how to move forward and am hoping to find honest opinions from people outside of my personal situation... I have been friends with a girlfriend of mine since I was 5 years old. Over the years we have maintained a great friendship. Even though we go periods of time without talking or seeing one another, we always reconnect... When I found out she was engaged I was happy for her and envisioned that I would be a part of her special day... When I got engaged a few months later, my congratulations came along with a 'we need to coordinate wedding details' (she heard that I wanted to use a color scheme that she was using, (I was unaware of this detail at the time)) ...
Anyway, our weddings will be exactly three weeks apart. I truely believed that this would be a blessing, we could bounce ideas off of one another, discuss the stresses of planning a wedding, attend bridal shows together and just be t h e r e for one another.... Well... Sadly.. This is not the case... I just found out through a mutual friend that she is only having 3 bridesmaids.... And I am not one of them.. She explains that her fiance doesn't have as many close friends and he doesn't want to invite people to be in the wedding, just to equal out numbers.. So she agreed to only have three (two relatives and our mutual friend)...
Being that I am getting married so close to her, it's hard for me to grasp this concept. Is your wedding day, not meant to be sharred with your closest friends and family? Why not just have the maid of honor walk by herself, why not have uneven numbers if you want someone to be a part of your special day? Do you feel that way as well?
And now the complicated question I am stuck asking myself... Do I ask her to be a bridesmaid in my wedding?