I'm struggling with the entire wedding party thing and trying to come up with something creative to skirt the, excuse me, lunacy of the tradition (no offense to those who hold this tradition near and dear to their hearts).
My main objective is to aviod pronouncing our closest friends/family by imposing my style and taste preferences on them. It just seems silly to me and I also have no idea who to "cut" from this list of contenders without hurting someone or having an army of people stand up with us.
I read an NYT article where a woman told her guests that anyone who showed up in a bridesmaid dress would be in her bridal party - I like this idea a lot! I'm just wondering how this would work logistically. Thinking I could include it on our wedding website, spread word of mouth, etc. And then there would just be a special photo we'd take with those who showed up wtih recycled dresses. It basically wouldn't work for the groomsmen, but might be fun for the ladies...thoughts??