I have a 1.5 year old son with my soon to be husband.. we want our son to be the ring bearer in our wedding but we are also concerned that it will be very stressful to watch him while we are do everything else, we also dont want to take away from someone elses fun by asking if they could keep an eye on him.. i also have two neices and nephews... paige(11yrs) faith(9yrs) brandon (8yrs) and nick (3yrs) and i would love for them to be a part of our wedding but also want their parents to enjoy themselves. how can i do this or should i just say no kids? help!!