One of my bridesmaids is really starting to annoy me. I love her to death, but she's prodding and throwing herself in the middle of everything! She tells me who to pick for a DJ, where to have the reception, the flowers, the caterer, telling me what color of dress *I* need to pick because *she* looks better in it than ___, and who to have at the guest book table … you get the point.
Some of that is fine, but she constantly tries to jockey herself into some very personal parts of the process (in my mind) too. The worst was when she tried inviting herself to go dress shopping with me and wouldn’t take the hint I only wanted my mom, sister, & grandmother there – I had to keep everything on the down-low to keep her from just showing up at the shop!! And when I mentioned we were going to look at rings for my fiancé, she told me what days she’ll be up to help us shop ...
She’s excited for us, I get that. But there’s only so much I can take! I have politely taken her suggestions, I have included her in several aspects of the wedding, but I have also set boundaries. The problem is – they’re not sinking in with this girl. Now I feel like I can’t even bring up anything wedding-related because I know I’ll snap at her if she comments on anything (because it’s never just a comment, it ALWAYS turns into a downpour!).
Any personal experiences and advice out there?????