So I graciously offered to go out to Memphis with DH and DS for Passover, and hopefully make this a yearly thing. Last year we went to BIL/SILs house about 20 min from us and (some of you remember - I posted about it) how awful the "seder" was. I use the word seder VERY liberally. I wanted a more traditional seder for DS, and I knew that DH's great aunt and uncle do one so that's where we're going. Plus, I've never taken DS to Memphis so the family is super excited.
Anyway, that's the background. So I get this email from MIL yesterday telling me that I need to bring a gift to said seder. excuse me? I was planning to send a thank-you note after the fact, and maybe bring my own bottle of grape juice (since I'm nursing and can't drink 4 whole glasses of wine). I understand OFFERING to bring something if you live local, but we're flying with a 6-1/2 month old, we're out of town, we're broke.....
Do you think I'm being unreasonable? Do you think my plan of grape juice and a thank you note is ok? Grrrr....ILs can be so annoying.
The Knot won't share my Bump Siggy, so here's the low-down:
4/27/07 - Got engaged!
8/31/08 - Got married (to my best friend)!
12/30/08 - Got Pregnant!
9/3/09 - Welcome to the world, Elias Solomon!
8/16/10 - Got Pregnant, again!
5/14/11 - Welcome to the world, Talia Hadassah!
1/14/12 - Ready or not, here comes #3 (EDD 9/27/12)