Are we supposed to do this? Neither my fiance nor I are members of his congregation and we have just hired him to perform the ceremony. We like him a lot and will meet with him at least twice more before the wedding but I don't know the protoccol here. I don't necessarily WANT to invite him but we want to do the right thing.
If we do decide to invite him, does he get a formal invitation? I assume I would invite his wife as well. Do rabbis like this typically accept? Not that two more people will break us but this thing is starting to get out of control.
Thanks!