I'm so sick of family and friends not mailing in their respond cards I just want to scream. The RSVP date was May 2nd and my wedding is June 2nd, I have to give my venue a final head count in 2 weeks. And only we only gotten back 30% of our respond cards. I don't mind if ppl don't come but dang send the crap in saying decline. Then what cooked my goose, a couple friends that just got married that vented to me about ppl not responding waited til I called them to mail in their responses. I had one friend in particular that told me she and her husband are still coming but they have been busy so I told her I'm sorry I've been busy too but I paid for those stamps so mail me back my property!! I told her telling me you are coming defeats the purpose of RSVP cards. Then 2 uncles complained to my aunt that they wasn't invited so I tooked the time out to mail them invitations last week so I get their responses back and they declined, I was like that's why I didn't mail you an invitation because I knew you wasn't coming. Oh what really churned my butter my cousin texted me and said my husband misplaced the invitation can we have another one, WHAT??? I told her the respond cards are not coming back to me they are going to my wedding planner so I will take time out my schedule cause you know I ain't doing sh** with my time and the bride will find an extra respond card and mail in your crap. Then my mom, FI and friends are like don't worry! Ok I won't worry thats easier said than done.
I just don't understand, I put a stamp on the envelope for you, if you live in house you walk to your mailbox and place it in the mailbox and raise the red flag quit holding the card. Then FI is giving people excuses, I told him my aunt is 80 yrs old and she mailed hers back in and had enough sense to decline my uncle(he doesn't attend family gatherings) and my other aunt(not even blood related) who is 82 with terrible arthritis mailed hers back so no one has any excuses!! Those women are the 2 oldest ppl coming. So I'm going to have someone stand at the door with a list of names and if your name ain't on the list you ain't getting in. I don't have extra money to waste, I have a life to live after the wedding, I have a mortgage to pay on June 1st and the wedding is June 2nd. So if I tell my venue that 75 ppl are coming and 80 show up then those 5 ppl won't get in. I don't want to be hit with a bill at the end of the wedding.
TIA for listening.