Okay Ladies! Please, Help me!!!!
So I knew right away, who I wanted to be in my wedding party! Well, after I ask all my girls, we were all very excited. Right after I had gotten engaged, there was a bridal show that I invited all the girls to go with me. There was a dress on a model that we both fell in love with. We had planned on dates to go look at dresses. Well one of my bridesmaids has bailed BOTH times that we had plans to go. The first time (a thursday night), she used the excuse "I have to pack to go home for the weekend" (she lives an hour away, and would be gone for 1 night) then the second time her excuse was "My boyfriend will be in town, so I'm going to have to pass" (her boyfriend was in town for about 2 1/2 weeks) . When I got back from trying on dresses the first time, she ask if I had tried on the one that we had seen. I told her I had, and that I liked it a lot. She got mad because thats the dress that she wants for her wedding. (She is not engaged, and has only been dating her boyfriend for 3 months). Also whenever her boyfriend is in town for weeks at a time, I don't hear a word from her. There have been a lot of similar situations, That she is very worried about herself! I didn't see this side of her until after I ask her to be in my wedding. Am I overreacting?! I am usually a very relaxed, go with the flow girl. But, this upsets me a lot. Any suggestions on what I can say to her?
Me and my MOH
June 2012, May Siggy Challenge