Hi All,My bf and I have been dating for nearly 3 years and we both know we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. We have talked about plans for the future and having kids etc. Anyhow over the last few months getting engaged/married has come up in conversation a lot. Like when we were talking about saving for a holiday next year and he said "oh how much does a wedding cost?" and there have been many other times it has come up like the other night he said that the proposal will be a surprise (he has a plan wink wink nudge nudge). He asked me hypothetically how I would propose if i were a guy? I said I would do it on a special occasion like new years eve or our anniversary etc. All relevant special occasions for us are over the Christmas period (which is why I think he may be planning to do it then).The problem is that all the talk of it has made me think about it alot and now I want it to happen more than ever. All the talk and no action is a massive tease for me. The suspense is killing me! ordinarily I would say bugger it and propose to him but he is traditional and I know he wants to do it right etc. Can I tell him to stop talking about it unless there's a ring on my finger? Its just so frustrating. Any advice?Thanks