FI and I got into a huge fight over his stupid hotel suite the night before. We have 9 attendants each and our wedding is at 9:40 am. I told him everyone needs to stay in 1 spot for 2 reasons:
1) this is how getting ready pictures and videos happen
2) 9:40 start time means we have no room for ppl being late! 3 of his GMs are good friends of mine and are notoriously late to everything!
He has one 300 pound plus BM whom he is basically feeling like would be uncomfortable in a suite with everyone and therefore he would rather get a bunch of rooms at a random hotel. with 2 to a room.
I told him :
1) we cant afford that
2) maybe his BM should just get a separate room
3) the square footage in a regular hotel room will not allow the photographer and videographer space to film and take pictures
4) I already mapped out the shortest hotels between my getting ready space to the hotel across the street to the ceremony location so that the photog /videog will not spend time we're paying for driving in circles
He got pissed! Like I was being unreasonable and said this is what we're doing end of story.
Am I wrong?