So we're starting to get our RSVPs back and relatives (mine and FI) are inviting relatives that weren't invited! We made a conscious decision not to invite any cousins. We're not particularly close to any of them, so it just makes sense to keep our numbers down. So now we have 6 cousins between us that have told either my parents or his mom that they'll be at the wedding. WTH? Why do people think they can just show up? Ok, now I'm going to go woo-sah and relax with a glass of wine. Thanks for letting me vent.