Lost a bridesmaid today due to her scheduling conflict at her job and also the fact that I felt as though she could have worked a little harder to get the day off seeing as though I'm supposed to be her best friend (of 8 years) and she has known about this for over a year. In addition, I have taken off work plenty of times for important events/milestones in her life ... most recently, her babyshower and I got her so many gifts.
She was so nonchalant about the whole thing, I texted about the bridal shower and if she will make it "I don't know yet." .. I said, "Okay."
I texted about the wedding, "I put my request in but I won't know until a few days before if I can get the day off." Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? I was almost to tears! I can't believe this woman just said that to me. I felt maybe I was overreacting but my FI said I was completely right about everything when I told her that maybe she should make more of an effort and be there for me as I am always there for her. She got mad because I compared people that are in her same boat to her situation (new job, baby, etc) ... I understand ALL of that but where there's a will..there is definitely a way!
Might have lost a bridesmaid and a best friend, I'm just so hurt by all of this. It's entirely too much!