My fiancee and I are newly engaged we would love to have a New Years eve ceremony in 2012, but are afraid due to the turn out. Our other date is in October 2012. We really want to do the New Years Eve being that we are young and festive, is that selfish of us to want to bring in the New Year with those closest to us? We are also having no kids since it is a same sex ceremony and will it really break our pocketsssssss? Please advise us of your opinion.