Hey Ladies,
I have a question. Often while lurking I come across numerous posts related to open bar vs. cash bar... I'm sure you've all seen them.
Obviously I agree that an open bar is the way to go if you can afford it, and it is what I will be doing at my wedding.
HOWEVER- and this is what I don't get-
Why do so many regs tell people that if they can't afford an open bar they should have a dry wedding instead of a cash bar?
Maybe it's a Canadian thing, but I have been to lots of weddings with cash bars and I have never been horribly offended/had an awful time/talked about it behind the Bride's back/considered not attending the wedding as some Knotties seem to suggest.
I would find it more awkward if I wanted a drink and there wasn't even the chance to buy one, as alcohol is expected at weddings unless the couple and their families do not drink for religious/cultural reasons.
In any event, I don't see why a dry wedding is a better alternative than a cash bar if you cannot afford an open bar.
Opinions?