I rarely post here but I feel like you ladies might be able to offer some good advice.
I have a very dear friend I grew up with who now lives in Washington state with her husband. They've been married for a year and a half. They have struggled for a very long time with jobs/money/finances. His college degree is in forestry and she has a business degree; she currently works as a receptionist at a vet clinic and he was recently laid off from his job, so money has been tight.
We have the kind of relationship where we ask each other to pray for certain things going on in our lives - lately I've been praying a lot for their job situation. My friend's dad told her he would pay for them to move home to ND if they could get jobs here, so her husband went on a trip a few weeks ago and had some job interviews. Yesterday she texted me and told me that he got a rejection letter from a job he really wanted.
I replied and told her that I was so sorry, and that I would continue to pray for him and for their situation. She then said "Praying does shiit. God doesn't fucking care about us. He's practicaly laughing by now I'm sure. I am just sick of getting turned away and turned down."
I didn't respond to that because I basically didn't know what to say to her. I've never heard her talk that way. I understand that she feels lost and scared right now, but I don't know how to tell her to not be angry with God or turn from Him during this time - because these are the times we need Him most. Any words of advice?