So, since my FI seems to think that money will fall from the sky to pay for our wedding and he doesn't seem too concerned....im trying to make a spread sheet of vendors, what the max ill pay, then what i actually do pay....and then what we owe. I'm extremely unorganized, so Im trying to not to be during wedding planning, because i hear the stress of it all can you make people crazy! But there are some areas....where I have no idea what amount is the norm....so I really don't know what to put...? The gifts for the bridal party for instance? Anyone know what's expected? I was in a friends wedding and our gifts were very sweet and generous! I dont want to be a cheapo bride, but at the same time I cant come out and ask my friend what she spent on us! Also....flowers? I'm clueless when it comes to flowers.....and heard hugely varying prices from friends that got married on what they should cost! Thoughts, anyone?