Last night I was out drinking with my fiance with some friends, and I caught one of my bridesmaids cheating on her longterm boyfriend (who is one of my groomsmen).
I texted her about it, and she's going to leave him (groomsman). I'm really broken up for them, but I'm also concerned about how to handle this (in regards to my wedding). Both of them are very close friends of mine and my fiance, and I can't picture not having either of them in our wedding (not to mention the fact that my wedding is less than 5 mo. away, and all dresses/suits have been purchased, etc. etc.). However, this is obviously going to get very ugly very quickly, and I'm concerned about things being awkward at the wedding.
My fiance and I are meeting with her later today to have a more indepth talk with her as to what is going on, as we both care very deeply about her and her happiness (and that of our groomsman), and this will probably get brought up.
I'd really appreciate feedback. What would you do? Should I continue with the original plan to have them both in the wedding?? Should I just kick them both out of the bridal party? I'm at a loss as to what to do right now.
Don't mind me... I haven't slept since last Wednesday.