I started planning my wedding over 8 months ago....
In may of 2009 i selected my MOH and bridesmaids. SINCE the day i ask my friend to be MOH i have not heard one thing from her, EXCEPT when she forwards joke or emails......
she has not responded to any of my wedding emails and her phone number changed so i did not have a good number for her.
i posted on my Facebook page a comment the other day and out of NO WHERE there is the MOH posting a comment saying "am i still your MOH - I better be"
by now i have sent her MANY emails asking her to respond. i have already shopped for my wedding dress, bridesmaid dress, venue, the other bridemaids have planned the shower, etc...
basically what i am saying is that every thing is done....
i sent her an email explaining that i have not heard from her in 8 months and when she did not respond to any of my emails that i had no choice but to ask my other good friend to step up from bridesmaid to MOH
am i wrong?? did i do the wrong thing?? i feel like i did the right thing i gave her many opportunities to respond, i have not heard from her in 8 months, she hasnt done a thing to help me .... and my wedding is in 2 months and now she steps up and wants the role of MOH.
Please give me your thoughts .......