Dealing with his cold feet!!
My fiancé and I have been together four years. We got engaged this past July and the wedding is in June- just a few months away. For this weekend we went to visit his parents and work on some wedding plans. I know that marriage is a concept that has always terrified him but I have been trying really hard not to rush him. Our first year together we broke up three times because he was terrified. (There is a great deal of emotional baggage regarding his family and marriage) But we have had a wonderful relationship for years. Tonight after doing wedding things for a good chunk of the day - he seemed aloof and upset. Finally he said to me that he was freaking out about the wedding and commitment and really feels lost about what to do. He said he doesn't know if he is ready and it's just scaring him to think about. We didn't reach a conclusion and after much emotion just called it a night. Now I can't sleep and am wondering what is going to happen in the morning. Is this normal cold feet and he will be fine or am I dealing with something deeper?
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