I have 6 girls in my wedding party and so far through this entire process they have not been helpful! i never expected them to do all the work, but they havent helped me do not 1 thing. They never ask if I need help! None of them have planned my bridal shower or any other party for that matter. Now to top it off I asked the girls to get their hair and make up done because I want them all to look gorgeous and also all look the same. A few of them have told me no because they dont want to look like the other girls! What? I wasnt aware they should have a say so!I dont think its asking much for them to get this done since i paid for thei jewelry and they shoes! I also let them (majority rules style) pick their own dress so that they wouldnt be spending very much, but it seem slike nothing has been good enough. Yet they want to call me a drama queen and a bridezilla because i have asked them to do one simple thing and thats get their hair and make up done. I hate to rant like this, but I am at my whits end! Also I need advice on how to deal with them before I go insane. My bridal party is made up of almost all family (between my sisters and my fiances), but it seems that his sisters are the ones giving me the most trouble yet they were the most excited in the beginning. I just dont know what to do so any advice would be helpful!