I am planning a wedding in late April 2012. This wedding was announced almost 6 months ago and I asked all but one of my bridesmaids to be in the wedding at the same time. I asked one of them about a month ago. I'm running into issues with people not wanting to pay for things. I am expecting my wedding party to pay for their own dresses and shoes and we're supposed to be splitting the accomodations between us.
My wedding rehearsal is on a Thursday and the wedding is on Sunday. My MoH is planning the bachelorette party for Friday night. Because my wedding party all lives over an hour away from the location, they want to stay near the venue, which makes sense. However, now I have almost all of them (or their parents for the younger girls) complaining about cost. The dresses are $140 a piece, shoes are $50, and accomodations are going to be around $150 for 4 nights (we're renting a beach house which is considerably cheaper than a hotel with the split). I'm sure they haven't even thought about hair, makeup, nails, and food.
So what is acceptable? I mean, should I be paying for their stuff? I thought it was pretty much known that cost isn't low when you agree to be in a "destination" (1 hour away) wedding.