Hello:My fiance and I have been engaged since February. My best friend is my matron of honor. I asked her right away and told her that we were going to get married in June of 2013. Now months later my friend is telling me that she is planning to start trying for a baby in September or so and will be around 8 or 9 months pregnant during my wedding. She says that she is 32 and can't wait much longer. When I spoke with her about this issue and asked if she could try a few months earlier, she said that her husband and her would not be financially ready and then when I said why don't you try after the wedding, she said that she didn't want to wait, when asked to wait a few months so she wasn't soooo pregnant on the day of, she said that she couldn't wait because then the baby would be born in a month where other people in her family were having their birthdays. She wanted her baby to have a birthday in a month all its own. So now what do I do? My fiance says she is being impoosible and my mom thinks she is trying to hog the spot light and is jealous because my friend didn't get her big white wedding because she was married in front of a judge. So again the questions is what do I do now? I feel like she is being selfish, but who am I to tell her how to run her life. I keep telling myself yeah my day is important but it's only one day compared to her entire life with a baby. Am I being silly? Thanks for your help.