My fiance wants to invite everyone we know and their mom (and dad, siblings, cousins, ex-coworkers...) to our reception. I would love to have a big wedding, but we don't have the budget to feed over 350 people and I really can't justify serving only cocktails and finger foods just to afford inviting people we aren't even close to.
As a compromise, I suggested having a dinner reception immediately following the ceremony for family & close friends, and inviting the others a little later in the night for open bar, dessert, dancing, etc. He likes the idea, but now I'm having second thoughts. Is it tacky to invite people to join the party late? I'm especially thinking of family-of-close-friends.