Hey! I normally post on the DE board. I saw your post about the 2 venues. If you are willing to travel to Newark, DE I would suggest the Deerfield Golf and Tennis Club. I got married there in June and it was awesome. The ballroom is all glass windows so your FI may like that. We are from Delco and looked at places in PA, but like your FI I wanted to something with windows and the Deerfield was perfect! HTH